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Monthly Letters for Students

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October 2026

Dear Students,

Welcome to a new month!

This month, we are reflecting on the virtue of Compassion.

Compassion is more than feeling sorry for someone; it is noticing when another person is hurting and choosing not to look away. It is the kindness to include the one who feels left out, the patience to truly listen, and the generosity to help even when there is nothing to gain. It goes beyond empathy – it moves us to action.

Sometimes, the person sitting quietly beside you may be carrying a burden you cannot see. A kind word, a listening ear, a helping hand, or simply your gentle presence may mean more than you will ever know.

In the words of St. Josemaría Escrivá:

“And you too were filled with a strong feeling of compassion deep within you… Make up your mind, where you are now, to give your life as a holocaust for all.”
— Furrow, 826

Let compassion begin with the little things: Notice- Listen-Seek to understand-Help- Forgive. Do not wait for a grand opportunity to do something extraordinary. The most profound acts of kindness are often found in the ordinary moments of everyday life.

As you go through this month, I invite you to ask yourself:

Who needs a little kindness around me today, and what can I do about it?

May we grow to become young ladies whose hearts are sensitive to the needs of others and whose hands are always ready to serve.

Wishing you a beautiful and meaningful month ahead!

Warm regards,
Doreen Onyekwelu
Principal

September 2026

Dear Students,

Welcome to the 2026/2027 Academic Session!

I hope you enjoyed a restful and refreshing holiday — time to relax, laugh with family, and recharge. We are truly excited to welcome you back to school on Monday, 14th September 2026.

As we begin this new session, our virtue of the month is Order.

Order may sound simple, but it is a profound virtue. It helps us bring purpose, discipline, and harmony to our daily lives.

To live with order is to:
• Give everything its proper place and every responsibility its due attention
• Manage your time wisely — for study, for rest, and for others
• Be prepared for lessons and activities
• Care for your surroundings and the things entrusted to you
• Fulfill your duties with diligence, even without reminders

St. Josemaría Escrivá, the founder of Opus Dei, taught that we can find God in the ordinary. He encouraged us to “sanctify our daily work” by doing it well, with love and a sense of responsibility.

In that same spirit, the smallest acts of order — organizing your books, keeping your word, tidying your space, arriving on time — can become beautiful expressions of love for God and for those around you.

As St. Josemaría beautifully reminds us:
“Order will bring harmony to your life and lead you to perseverance.
Order will give peace to your heart and dignity to your bearing.”
— The Forge, 806

My dear girls, may this year be one of growth in wisdom, virtue, and excellence. Let us start strong, together, by choosing order in the little things. That is where greatness begins.

Wishing you a blessed, joyful, and fulfilling session ahead.

With love,

Doreen Onyekwelu
Principal

August 2026

Dear Students,

Welcome to the month of August. I hope you are enjoying your holiday.

This month, we shall reflect on the virtue of “Trustworthiness”—a noble quality that is demonstrated through honesty, integrity, dependability, and faithfulness in both word and action. A trustworthy person is one whose character inspires confidence because their actions consistently reflect the values they profess.

St. Josemaría Escrivá reminds us in The Way (No. 659):

“You must seek something more: the supernatural happiness that comes from the abandonment of everything and the abandonment of yourself into the loving arms of our Father-God.”

This profound teaching reminds us that genuine trustworthiness is rooted in complete confidence in God. When we entrust our lives to His loving providence, we are strengthened to act with integrity, remain faithful to our commitments, and uphold the truth, even when faced with challenges or when our actions go unnoticed by others.

As you journey through this month, I encourage you to reflect daily on this important question:

Do my words, actions, and decisions inspire others to place their trust in me?

May this month be one of growth in character, integrity, and unwavering trust in God.

Warm regards,
Doreen Onyekwelu
Principal

July 2026

Hello Students,

Happy new month!
This month, we’re focusing on one powerful virtue: Perseverance.

Think of it like this: Perseverance is your “keep-going” muscle. It’s choosing to stay focused and try again, even when a topic feels hard, when you are tired, when you would rather quit.

We all get that “I can’t do this” moment. The difference? People who grow don’t stop there. They take a breath, try a new approach, and push forward anyway. Every person you look up to has had setbacks. They just didn’t let the setback have the last word.

In your studies and in life, things won’t always go as planned. A tough subject, a failed test, a rough week — those aren’t stop signs. They’re chances to get stronger, think differently, and prove to yourself what you’re made of.

St. Josemaría Escrivá puts it like this:

‘My enthusiasm is gone’, you write. You have to work not out of enthusiasm but out of Love:
conscious of duty, which means self-denial. [The Way, Point 994]

With perseverance, you won’t just survive the hard parts — you’ll conquer them.

Wishing you the best as you write your examinations. Go in with calm minds, steady hearts, and the belief that one more try can change everything.

Warm regards,
Doreen Onyekwelu
Principal

June 2026

Dear Students,

Happy New Month!

This June, we will be reflecting on the beautiful virtue of optimism—learning to look for the good, even on the days when things don’t go as planned. Optimism doesn’t mean pretending everything is perfect. It means trusting that things can improve, and that every experience, good or tough, has something valuable to teach you.

I know there are moments when you feel disappointed—maybe a test didn’t go well, or a plan didn’t work out. In those moments, optimism is what helps you take a deep breath, stand up, and try again. It’s the mindset that says, “This isn’t the end of my story,” and it’s rooted in faith, trust, and the belief that growth can come from every situation.

As Saint Josemaría Escrivá reminds us: “Don’t be a pessimist. Don’t you realise that all that happens or can happen is for the best? Your optimism will be a necessary consequence of your faith.” (The Way, no. 378)

This month, I challenge you to speak kindly to yourselves, focus on what you can learn, and believe in your ability to grow. Remember: with optimism, even setbacks can become stepping stones.

I’m proud of you and cheering you on!

Warm regards,
Doreen Onyekwelu
Principal

May 2026

Happy New Month.

This month, we’re focusing on the virtue of integrity — the courage to choose what is right, even when it’s hard or when no one is watching. Integrity means being honest, keeping your word, and staying true to your values. As Scripture says: “Whoever walks in integrity walks securely.”— Proverbs 10:9

In a world full of shortcuts, integrity is what makes you stand out. You show it in small, daily choices: how you act in class, how you treat your friends, and how you approach your studies.

So as you go through this month, let integrity guide you. True strength is doing what is right, simply because it’s right.

“Do everything unselfishly, for pure Love, as if there were neither reward nor punishment. But in your heart, foster the glorious hope of heaven.” — The Way, no. 668, St. Josemaría Escrivá

Warm regards,
Doreen Onyekwelu
Principal

April 2026

Hello amazing students,

Here’s wishing you a month filled with joy! Let’s talk about a cool virtue – modesty. It’s like having an inner strength that helps you own who you are, without needing unnecessary validation. Modesty is about knowing your worth, dressing smartly, speaking kindly, and relating with others in a way that’s real.

In a world that’s so focused on getting noticed, modesty reminds us that true confidence comes from within. As Saint Josemaría Escrivá says, “Decorum and modesty are younger brothers of purity” (The Way, no. 128). When you choose modesty, you’re letting your awesome character shine through – and that’s what truly makes you beautiful.

So, let modesty guide your choices this month. True beauty is reflected in your values, your kindness, and the respect you show yourself and others.

Warm regards,
Doreen Onyekwelu
Principal

March 2026

Dear Students,

Happy new month! March is here, and we’re focusing on something beautiful: Contentment. It’s not about getting everything you want, but about trusting God’s plan and finding joy in doing His will.

St. Josemaría Escrivá reminds us, “My food is to do His will” (The Way 766). True happiness comes from choosing obedience, responsibility, and faithfulness – even when it’s tough.

Contentment isn’t about giving up on dreams; it’s about being grateful for where you are while working towards where you’re going. Let’s grow in trust, gratitude, and quiet confidence this month, knowing God’s will is enough.

Warm regards,
Doreen Onyekwelu
Principal

February 2026

Dear Students,

Happy new month! Welcome to another month of learning, growth, and new opportunities.

Our Virtue of the Month is Sportsmanship. It’s more than just winning; it’s about how you play, how you treat others, and how you respond to every outcome. This virtue teaches us respect, discipline, teamwork, perseverance, and fairness.

St. Josemaría Escrivá beautifully compares growing in virtue to playing a sport:
“The ascetical struggle… is a sport. A good sportsman doesn’t fight to gain just one victory… He has to build himself up for it, training over a long period of time, calmly and confidently. He keeps trying again and again… until the obstacle is overcome.” — The Forge, point 169

As we approach our Annual Inter-House Sports Competition, I encourage you to live out this virtue. Remember, true victory is found in your effort, character, and good conduct.

Enjoy the games, participate enthusiastically, and let your actions reflect the values you embody as students of our school.

I can’t wait to see your sportsmanship shine throughout the month!

Warm regards,

Doreen Onyekwelu
Principal

January 2026

Dear Students,

Happy New Year! We are super excited to kick off this fresh term with opportunities to learn, grow, and shine. Our virtue of the month is cheerfulness – it’s all about choosing to approach each day with a positive spirit, even when things get tough. Think of it as the courage to keep going, the strength to stay hopeful, and the kindness to uplift others.

This month is your chance to start afresh, set new goals, and bring your A-game to everything you do. You’ve got this! You are deeply loved by God, and that love gives you confidence, peace, and joy – no matter what comes your way.

Let’s make this new year one with cheerful hearts, bright smiles, and renewed determination.
Cheers,

Warm regards,

Doreen Onyekwelu
Principal